Learning how to get over a break up is one of the most trying experiences you can go through. You can think about it, but you will never learn how to get over a break up without real life experience. Healing from a broken heart is something you can not learn through second hand knowledge. I know. I had to learn how to get over a break up a few times. Rest assured though, once you learn how to get over a break up, you will completely forget it, as soon as you fall in love again. Here is my story of how I learned to get over a break up . . . this last time.
I know what you are thinking. I know what you’re feeling. Everything you find youself going through emotionally, mentally, and physically, I have been there and done that. I wasn’t even cool enough to get the T-shirt. You are tired of talking about it, tired of thinking about it, and tired of how drained the whole experience is making you feel. You are just tired.
When you are in love with someone and they decide that you are not the right person for them, well, that is more painful than a swift kick in the teeth with a steel-toed Kodiak workboot on a Saturday night. At least, while in physical pain, there are actually things you can do to heal yourself. The process has been established by the fine folks in the medical field. Unfortunately, heartbreak has no known remedy. There are some things you can do to help heal your wounded heart, but there are no pills to take for instant gratification. No, healing a broken heart is a process, and it takes time.
I hope you find solace in this guide, and quite frankly, I wish it were available when I was dealing with my own pain. When I reached the point that I was embarrassed to still be talking about her to my friends and family, I would scour the internet, looking for stories similar to my own. Just praying to find some words of wisdom that would either make her come back to me or make the pain and emptiness disappear. I would find little tidbits here and there, but overall, there was no magic formula to make it happen.
If you’re only here because you hope I can tell you how to get your ex back, well you are in luck, because I can. I will be posting the way I got a few of my exes back, and told this method to a friend of mine and he got his ex back too. He told me he was going to write a book on it…so he did. You can find it here.
It took over 4 years before I felt that I was fully healed from the pain. Hindsight is 20/20 and now I see, after 4 years of dilligent research on the subject of healing from a broken heart, that the remedy is pretty similar for everyone that has gone through it. My struggle, coupled with the lack of some form of guidance, led me to the decision to create this guide for people that are heart sick. I can’t sit here and make a guarantee that you will be healed when you finish reading this. I can’t even promise you will be all better in six months, because the sad truth is that each case is different, and the length of time it takes to recover will vary based on that. Fortunately, I can promise you that, if you WANT to get over the pain and move on, then the process will be sped up rapidly.
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My intention with this guide is to heal broken hearts. I am not making any claims to “make your ex come back” or anything outrageous like that, however if you follow this guide, as a possible by-product of the changes that will occur in you, your ex just may come sniffing around. At that point . . . with a totally healed heart . . . you can evaluate your feelings, and make an informed decision that you will let them get a strong whiff of the new you or just fart right there in their nose. The beauty of it is that it will be up to you.
I do reccomend, if you want to get your ex back, that you get “The Magic Of Making Up” or “Bring Back A Lost Love “by renowned relationship counselor Cucan Pemo . They are both great books that are sure to open your eyes!
