If you’ve found yourself in the position of saying, “I’ve fallen in love with a co-worker“, don’t fret because, judging by the questions I’ve gotten in the past, this happens all the time.
It’s easy to see how this can happen. In reality, you spend more of your time in a state of consciousness with those that you work with, than you spend at home. Eight hours a day, five days a week, and you can add the extra hour for lunch everyday on top of that. If you’ve fallen in love with a co-worker, then chances are very good that you are spending your lunch breaks with them. When you fall in love with a co-worker, or at least feel like you are in love with them, you begin to wonder how all of it will play out.
There are a number of things to consider. First off, it’s great because your co-worker gives you a reason to feel happy about going to work, and the excitement is often a huge turn-on. Another element that adds to the excitement of the relationship, is the fact that you and the co-worker both know about the electricity between you, and you both try to keep this from being obvious to everyone that you work with. The secrecy is kind of like you’re in the CIA, on some kind of covert operation.
The problem with this kind of a scenario is the reality that, if things don’t work out like you would hope, then one of you will have to find another job. The emotional baggage that comes from failed relationships is often too much for anyone to tolerate, regardless of the setting, but a workplace romance is doubly tough.
A great many people, while struggling to get over a break up, will often bury themselves in their work in order to take a mental vacation from the emotional trauma. However, if the one that breaks your heart is someone that you work with, you will be unable to use this healing method. Nope. You will be reminded of the failure for 8 hours a day, 5 days a week, and even that one hour lunch break that you’ll waste thinking about the days you and your co-worker ex use to sneak off to make out. Then you get to go to your lonely house and think about it some more.
Think twice when you feel you’ve fallen in love with a co-worker. Getting over it will have you working overtime.
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