Break up help for men is not as readily available as it is for women. Most men are afraid to admit they need help with a break up, but break up help for men should be equally available to men as it is to women.
Men and women just flat handle things differently. The general ideas in what you need to do, showing you how to get over a break up are covered in detail throughout this blog, but I thought I would write a post for women and a post for men, in order to provide more specific ideas in what to do to speed the healing process. Now it’s the men’s turn.
Other than what I stated, in detail, earlier in this blog, a breif summary of what you must do, in order to heal is:
No Contact- Cut off all contact with the ex. Being friends is a terrible idea because, when there is a break up, there is usually one party that did not want it to happen. This can lead to alot of animosity. Friendships are virtually impossible.
Reward yourself- Give yourself little prizes for each week you maintain no contact or for any other progress you make in your healing process
Exercise and eat right- A healthy body leads to a healthy mind.
Laugh- Find any and everything you can to laugh at. Make it a priority. Laughter just makes us feel better.
Maintain a busy schedule- An idle mind is a dangerous thing when you have recently broken up.
Socialize- Meet new people, even date if you are up to it, but be sure to avoid a rebound.
Other than those things, for you men, I think you may want to talk to someone you can trust to not judge you for being emotionally vulnerable. I know that your guy friends are probably macho, and you’re scared to tell them you’re in pain, but your best bet is to open up to someone. Burying the negative feelings you’re having is not a healthy way to live. It can help cause hyper-tension, raise your blood pressure, and increase your stress level. Venting out emotional pain, while not easy for a lot of men, is one of the most important things you can do to help you heal faster.
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I also think you should socialize as often as you can with your buddies. Go the the game, go see an action movie, go to a comedy club.
Do anything that you enjoy doing. What you do doesn’t matter as much as the fact that you are doing something. Resist the urge to sit around the house and get fat, lazy, and depressed. It’s easy to fall into that trap. Let this pain serve as motivation. If you want to, exercise like a mad man, so that if she sees you again, she is going to be amazed at how awesome you look. Use it as motivation to advance your career. To further your education. Don’t matter what, just use it for motivation to do something positive for your life. You deserve it.
