It’s very easy for some guys to drop a woman flat these days. Unfortunately, sometimes the woman, herself contributes to this dumping by making it too easy for him to leave. Many times when this happens a contributing factor is the partners have agreed in the beginning to make it easy for the relationship to be terminated. Of course, not every breakup can be attributed to this.
Here, we will discuss 3 really bad and preventable reasons some men leave their girl high and dry. These reasons, though they are selfish and maybe even cruel on the man’s part, can be traced back to the beginning of the relationship when the woman still had some say.
For sure, these reasons are bad ones and any guy who uses them, in the final analysis, is an idiot. Still, these guys are around and so girls have to be aware of them and their warped senses of reasoning.
She Doesn’t Impress His Friends and/or Associates
Many times a man becomes taken by a woman who seems to be attractive to others he associates himself with. While reasoning like this is probably reserved for guys with inferiority complexes, many men are more concerned by having some one who is approved by their peers than they are finding somebody they truly love.
A problem will arise if his friends change their minds or if he happen to move up, or down to a new set of friends who don’t take to her. In his zeal to make sure he has the best mate, he will have to quit his relationship with this unapproved woman and find one his friends are comfortable with.
He Thinks She’s No Longer a Babe
Here’s a common problem you would think would never happen at all. Early in the relationship, these two people just can’t stay further away than an arms length. She just can’t get enough of him and he just can’t wait until next time they’re alone together.
Then, the years move on and before your know it he’s thinking, “Hey, I can do better than her!” This happens more than it should. The moral to the story is; make sure there is something more to a relationship than good old fashion, well… you know.
Having a Family is Too Tough!
The thing that’s changed drastically over the years is that now a lot of folks seem to be in a hurry to settle down without really settling down. What I mean by this is, they start living together without ever starting a married type of relationship.
It is hard to see in the beginning when everything is rosy, if a guy happens to be one of those types that can’t take the heat of having a family. So if he ends up being one of those, as soon as he is inconvenienced, out he goes. He’ll leave woman, kids, dogs and cats behind in his quest to find an easier way of life.
I’m not running a church here, so I’m not going to tell anybody they shouldn’t be living in sin. However, I am saying babies happen, sometimes as if by magic. No one should ever chance starting a family without a ring; or at least a prenuptial agreement.
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