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12:18:00 am on December 26, 2008 |
It was recently brought to my attention, in an email from one of our readers, that I have not yet addressed long distance relationships and getting your ex back. This was a slight oversight on my part, mainly because I haven’t personally been involved in a long distance relationship and tried to get the ex back, so being perfectly honest, the situation just didn’t occur to me. Special thanks to you know who for pointing this out.
The good news is that the principles behind getting your ex back, whether in person or in a long distance relationship, will work just the same. This question was recently asked: “How is no contact going to help me get my ex back if I wasn’t there in person”? and the answer is the same as if you were in person.
No contact is something that effects the dumpers in an emotional way. Regardless if you have been in close physical proximity to the person, over time, you develop a deep, and meaningful, emotional bond to your ex. You are an element of support for that person. People get attached, or addicted if you will, to that kind of support. When you are in “no contact” mode with your ex, that support is gone, and they WILL come to miss it like crazy. Just the same as if you were there in person.
For instance, if you live away from home and you lean on your family for emotional support during trying times, how would you feel if you no longer had access to that support? Would you miss it? You bet you would. You would miss it BIG TIME!
So don’t worry about the circumstances of your situation. The solutions that are found in the best “get your ex back” ebooks will work regardless.
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