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01:11:00 am on December 24, 2008 |
So you’ve been dumped and you want your ex back. There is one main reason that your ex dumped you in the first place: A loss of attraction. If there wasn’t a loss of attraction, I guarantee you that your ex would walk on fire and nails to make things work with you.
Once the attraction is gone, however, the fight just doesn’t seem worth it.So if you want your ex back, then one of the things we must do to make them come back, is to re-create the attraction they felt in the first place. A lot has changed since you first met your ex. I’ll bet that, when you met your ex, you were a confident person that felt good about yourself and your life. You didn’t act like a whiney, needy, desperate cry-baby. You didn’t have to, nor did you feel the urge, to ask “Are you okay” or “Is something wrong” every five seconds. I’m sure you also didn’t need reassurance about your status in the relationship all the time either. No, I think back then, you seemed like an entirely different person than what you have become.
The good news is that this is something that can be fixed. If you are truly wanting your ex back, then I’m sure you are following rule number one: No contact. This is a very important rule that you must follow. Being in no contact allows your ex the chance to forget about your whining, begging, pleading, and otherwise whimpy ways. When you do have contact with your ex again, you are going to be just like the person they fell in love with the first time around.
You are going to be confident, you are going to be independent, and you are going to have that radiant personality that they just cant seem to resist. In order to do this, you are going to take some crash courses on how to create attraction.
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